Absence makes the heart grow fonder but how do you date someone who travels for business? This is Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, a boomer woman's guide to men and dating" and host of "Ask Dr. Paul." There is a solution to that and that solution can be very, very exciting. I had that solution given to me on the air by a clinical psychologist who said that he overcame this with a number of his patients in the following way. If your significant other is going to a city that might be of interest to both of you then you say, "Hey, look, I'll join you for the weekend while you're there rather than come home because you're going to have to be there the following week and we'll have a nice weekend together." Hey, it might be Las Vegas. It might be Timbuktu but the most important thing, of course, is that you are there together, with each other. So, make lemonade out of lemons. Turn it around and make it happen for you and your significant other. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities of tomorrow.