Dear Future Sex God =) My name is Shawna, and as a girl who's been with both guys and girls, I can tell you 2 things I know about sex that are totally tru 101. Women instinctively know the spots on another girl's body to touch -- and how to touch them -- to make her feel INCREDIBLE =) 2. When a MAN knows these same spots and how to touch them... it feels even better! But here's the problem... Most Men Don't Have The First Clue About How To Touch A Woman...Let Alone How To Make Her Cum! Have you ever been with a woman and worried she may have been disappointed with your performance or that her last lover was better in bed than you are? If so, you're not alone. Do you know the biggest reason why women cheat on their partners? It's very simple... It's Because She Is Bored With You In Bed! I know the same has held true for me many times in my life... I'd meet a guy, we'd totally click... and than we'd get in the bedroom and he just wouldn't know how to make me cum... Sure, it can still be fun in the beginning while things are still new... but after awhile, if the guy doesn't know what he's doing the sex just gets boring... and I'll quickly lose interest. On the other hand... if a guy can make my body shake and make my toes curl back in ecstasy while I'm screaming at the top of my lungs... oh man... I'm yours whenever and however you want! You see, we girls love and NEED sex as much as men! A lot of guys don't realize that it's a HUGE part of the relationship for us too! That's a big part of the reason why I've always enjoyed being with other girls. Women know exactly how a woman's body works... the places it feels best to be touched... and exactly how to touch them in a way that drives you CRAZY. Being with another woman is always a lot of fun =) But when it comes to men I'll be totally honest and upfront with you -- while many guys TALK a big game... Almost ALL guys are ABSOLUTELY CLUELESS when it comes to really knowing how to get a woman off! Ask any girl and she will tell you the same thing! This can be really frustrating to us girls. Imagine if you were with a woman who couldn't give YOU an orgasm -- would you continue dating her? Of course you wouldn't. And it works both ways -- if you're bad in bed, it's almost certain that your woman will leave you or cheat on you. Worst case scenario... she will cheat on you until you find out -- then leave you for the other man. I've seen my girlfriends do it... a LOT. And while I personally could never cheat on someone I cared about, I'll confess- I have broken up with guys because they couldn't satisfy me.